Why I stopped trying to grow and started trying to help — and what happened to XEdge's traffic

For the first two weeks of building XEdge I didn’t mention the product once.
I showed up in Discord servers, answered questions on Dev.to, replied to LinkedIn posts from bigger accounts — all without pitching anything. Just genuinely trying to be useful.
By the time I mentioned XEdge, people already knew I knew what I was talking about. The click-through rate on those first mentions was dramatically higher than anything I’ve posted since, because trust was already there before the ask.
700 users later, $0 marketing spend, I keep coming back to the same lesson: distribution isn’t a numbers game, it’s a trust game.
You don’t need more reach. You need more trust density in the right rooms.
What room are you in right now where you’ve been lurking instead of contributing?